Preparing for Parenthood with Your Pet
Some say that looking after a pet can prepare you for parenthood, by helping you adjust to the responsibility of caring for another living thing and honing your parenting skills. Although nothing can make you fully ready to welcome a child into your life, with a pet you will experience similar obstacles and learning curves to better prepare you for becoming a parent.
A Lifestyle Change
The biggest challenge of having a child is getting your head around how much they will change your life. One minute it’s just you and then all of a sudden there’s someone new who your life revolves around. This situation is similar to getting a pet – you will need to adapt your lifestyle and establish a new daily routine to fit in with their needs. Feeding, exercising, grooming, playing and bedtime all have set times, giving your day structure. Learning to adjust your life to look after your pet will help lessen the shock of when a child comes into the picture.
Rachel Khan from London found her life changed drastically after getting her two rescue Labradors. Now expecting her first child, she’s found that taking care of her dogs has been great practice to prepare her for motherhood.
Rachel is soon to go on maternity leave from her busy work life as Head of VM UK and Ireland for Calvin Klein. She’s looking forward to being able to spend more time with her dogs and reflects on how she and her husband Omar have adapted to them.
“I guess the most obvious change is that our lives already revolve around another living thing – I think that’s a shock to non-pet people. I think that you have to be a bit selfless to have a pet and put it first, so that’s good preparation for a new born baby.”
Rachel told us that her rescue dog Don has regular temper tantrums so she’ll be well equipped to deal with those embarrassing moments in the supermarket when her infant throws his toys out of the pram.